The hospitality side of the fret

Wedding is done, I go to work to stay home with her mother, then her sins, and brought her to live in Saigon saw her disloyalty.

I am now 27 years old, graduate mechanical engineering in 2012, working for three years. I'm working designers for a mechanical engineering company. My house is freezing you but people are married almost, only I (youngest son) and sister (younger sister). Her father died when I was three years of undergraduate study. My mother was old, working age, older people bring disease (fatigue, back pain ...). I work away from home for more than 200 km should not have the time with her ​​mother. Every time you go home, she kept asking me have you not? If yes, then quickly make mom happy crowd. I also understand I want my mother still surface Furniture for Sale reassuring.  I also intend to return home to find work but hard work as expected.

I decided after marriage will be in place as the old one. I used to be and she is only a year, if I decide to get married have not much higher? The work I am doing income is only about 7 million a month. I'm in HCMC. Expect experts can give advice about my intention. ( Ming)

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Answer

Saw a question "settled peace and contentment", ie to stabilize at the new place of peace in life. Previously, during the war, because war should have the right away from his wife and children all year and when nearly all his life; peace still today, the couple apart is not recommended, because the couple separated in distance synonymous with emotion, but far from sentimental feelings are likely to emerge over the counter.

Your case must escape to earn a livelihood, the bear to be away from home. Are you up to the house in the countryside for a job but no jobs matching your career, so that your home is hard work. If you work from home, monthly, about 200 km once it is difficult not to mention the restaurant week. With such circumstances, filial way to make money to support her mother's best friend.

You also have the foster mom's sister, this is ideal. You talk to your sister about your right to earn a living in the city and would like to donate money to help her adopted mother. After finishing her talk to you and ask you about your mother is in the city to work long term. This you need to parent table before you peace of mind, if you can, to all the family get consensus on settlements and taking care of your elderly mother.

With a girlfriend, you know one year nor more than if marriage. Love marriage is not only time to learn but also depends on the quality of the learning process. There lovers just married 5 years but still not happy. So you must check the girlfriend of harmony, the ability to adjust to adapt ... before deciding to marry. What about your income 7 million a month, if you are married, then his wife to make enough to live in HCMC with this amount. The problem is that the couple must know appropriate spending and saving. 

You should be settled in place and are working to find out who fits to build family residence with you. The elderly mother, then you need to provide money to breast feed. Your are intended to be.

Wishing success.